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In this way and in others, I slowly grew in self-mastery.
Yet I still fell to the temptation to lust and look at pornography regularly. I realized that what took years to develop into a deeply rooted vice, would take years to uproot.
It’s awkward, I know, to say it so candidly, but the only way to defeat pornography in our lives is to admit that we have a widespread problem with it.When I became Catholic, I was hopeful that pornography would be eradicated from my life instantly by Mass and Confession, a sacramental one-two punch. And somewhere I read that “the sacraments are not magic.” But I also read that, unlike what I was taught in Protestantism, I could truly cooperate with God’s grace.So I dove into the depths of Catholicism: the lives of the saints, Eucharistic adoration, daily Mass, volunteering and service, frequent Confession, regular novenas, confraternities and sacramentals–the whole gamut.I don't see it as out of the norm or kinky, but then again I don't find much to be kinky that my friends do. Just having a problem imagining having the restraint to keep my hands (and other things) to myself in that situation.I was with my exhusband for almost 10 years and at first I was opposed to it, but I learned to love it once we tried it. About 20 years ago I had a partner that I would meet on a monthly basis for exactly this and only this, mutual masterbation. I have spoken to quite a few men about this and have never had anyone say that they would not enjoy doing it. If it's not normal to do it with your partner, I'm not normal and I plan to stay that way. If not, there are a lot of other things they won't do with their partner. Absolutely unequivocally I think it is a major turn on for both.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I was chatting with some of my girlfriends and they say they would NEVER do it in front of their partner and don't like to watch him do it. Rick Like many other things, it is something I'd neither object to nor insist upon.