Why shouldn’t two gloomy souls, comfortable in their respective gloominess, attract each other? Like a board game, or pool, but something that lets people chat. It felt kind of shitty when it happened back then (my second date ever).
I’ve been on quite a few dates, over romanticized more than a few connections, and found myself not doing much different even though I promised “this time would be different”.So, on a date, we’re advised put on our happy face. Daters are trying to gauge, to the best of their ability, how much the other person likes them.Responses of smiling and laughing seem to be good indicators here.Those relationships are my friendships and my family who take the time to show me they care by responsiveness, availability and uninterrupted quality time (my love language).In all this chaotic love story solely written by yours truly, I found myself giving light and making room for connection of female friendship.