Dating women feeling unworthy
Under his breath you barely hear these words, “No one likes to fail…I don’t want to fail.” “You’re right…no one likes to fail, but no matter what any of us guys do we will all do exactly that.” A guy says from behind his saddened, but stern eyes.
He continues to convey how he feels that no matter how hard a guy tries, it won’t be good enough in the end any how.
“I blame it on the fairy tales and romantic comedies,” He says.
“There’s knights in shining armor, the biggest engagement rings ever, and guys that always know what to say.” This strikes you a bit oddly.
They should always dress nice, have a nice home (a horse and carriage is a nice perk), never be grumpy, be the perfect balance of sensitive and masculine, able to beat up 1 to 40 guys all by himself if need be, and, oh yes, he must always leave the toilet seat down, because he is the most thoughtful and caring man alive. I Hate Fairy Tales backs this up with a personal story of how he once bought his ex-girlfriend 12 roses.
He begins to express how his parents struggled financially and how it put a lot of stress on their marriage. If he could become financially secure, then he would feel much more at ease about being with a woman. ” After the money talk subsided a man blurted out, “I don’t date simply because I’m not any good at it!
She is wild about him, and will follow him anywhere.
But he has a hard time believing that she loves him, and interprets her love as neediness or loneliness.
You -- an estrogen carrier -- are an alien in the world of the testosterone breathers. Say nothing…just listen…at first nothing but grunts can be heard, but after a few minutes a word is understood. You think how rude and cold these guys must be to not say anything, but to your surprise, none of the guys seem bothered in the least about the silence. The following is just a sample of what was unveiled.
You are not totally sure, but you think the word was…football. Before you know it you can actually understand a sentence or two. The silence is abruptly interrupted with the subject that you have been waiting for since you became a fly on the wall…girls…dating…and what guys are thinking about the two. As he begins to talk you realize that guys ponder way more than emotions.
Except there’s something a little bit different about how you view the men in your life.